The FlameWalker Podcast with Kaleah

Why are so many women attracted to the bad boy or narcissist and why are so many men attracted to the borderline, high maintenance vixen?  This is a common question that is often difficult to find an easy answer to.  In this episode of Pandora's Box we will look deeper into the powerful draw to the narcissist and how we can understand our own attraction factor, change it and move on to a much more sane and healthy relationship.

So you've found yourself in a relationship with a narcissist or have been dealing with a narcissistic family member, friend, boss or co-worker.  Your feelings of insanity and confusion led you to research your symptoms only to come up with the term NPD or Narcissistic Personality Disorder.  Now what?  How do you get yourself unentangled from the narcissistic Web of Illusion and find your way back to Sanity.  In this episode of Pandora's Box Kaleah talks about how the empathic, codependent, enabler is a perfect match for a narcissist.  How can you recognize your own co-dependent nature and heal yourself so that you are no longer drawn to the role of enabler.

So you've found yourself in a relationship with a narcissist or have been dealing with a narcissistic family member, friend, boss or co-worker.  Your feelings of insanity and confusion led you to research your symptoms only to come up with the term NPD or Narcissistic Personality Disorder.  Now what?  How do you get yourself unentangled from the narcissistic Web of Illusion and find your way back to Sanity.  In this episode of Pandora's Box Kaleah talks about the importance of "no contact" or "no energy" in order to get your power back.

Tuesday August 5th, 2013 4pm PT:  Understanding Narcissistic Abuse So you've found yourself in a relationship with a narcissist or have been dealing with a narcissistic family member, friend, boss or co-worker.  Your feelings of insanity and confusion led you to research your symptoms only to come up with the term NPD or Narcissistic Personality Disorder.  Now what?  How do you get yourself unentangled from the narcissistic Web of Illusion and find your way back to Sanity.  In this episode of Pandora's Box Kaleah brings new insight and awareness to the topic of NPD.

To wrap up the four stages of metamorphosis Kaleah talks about living the authentic life.  It is the new life as a butterfly; as your true self where you now make your own needs a priority and live a life designed by YOU.  Does this mean you are always happy, joyful and fulfilled?  NO!  it means you are REAL and have real feelings, real relationships and real, honest communication.  No more wishing that someone else will come in and rescue you from pain.  You have learned to accept pain as part of your life experience and have become your own rescuer.  Kaleah draws inspiration from her new book "Rebirth; Traversing the Dark Night of the Soul" sharing her ideas and concepts from the book. Learn More About This Book or Purchase It Now!

This is the final stage of metamorphosis where the new body of the butterfly is formed and it has sufficient strength to break out of the cocoon and take flight into its new life. This is the stage of rebirth where everything begins to emerge much like the bursting forth of springtime. This is where you may truly feel inspired by life again; you begin to come back out and be more social. It may be a time where you move to a new place, launch a new business, get a new job, work out and get into great shape, change your diet, start expressing yourself artistically in a new way and even finding new love. In this episode of Pandora’s Box Kaleah talks about the rebirth and how you can recognize that point where you stop dying and start being born. Kaleah draws inspiration from her new book "Rebirth; Traversing the Dark Night of the Soul" sharing her ideas and concepts from the book. Learn More About This Book or Purchase It Now!

In the process of metamorphosis the old resistant cells are being consumed by the rapidly growing imaginal cells. The old cells are the body of the caterpillar surrendering its form to become the butterfly. But how is the butterfly formed? From the new, non resistant imaginal cells. As we let go of the old we use our own imaginal cells or imagination to create the new life that is emerging. In this episode of Pandora’s Box Kaleah talks about the emptiness most people find themselves in during a personal metamorphosis and how to use your imagination to create what you really want in life. Kaleah draws inspiration from her new book "Rebirth; Traversing the Dark Night of the Soul" sharing her ideas and concepts from the book. Learn More About This Book or Purchase It Now!

Being in the womb of transformation is being in the cocoon. One has dissolved into nothingness and a major inward retreat is in process. This is not a time to be social or “out there” in the world. It is a time for personal retreat, solitude and introspection. It is a time to face the dragon; the shadow; our own dark side. In this place we confront our deepest fears and insecurities; we cry all our uncried tears; grieve what has outgrown its form or no longer a part of our lives and we learn to surrender to the process of being “in the womb of transformation.” Kaleah draws inspiration from her new book "Rebirth; Traversing the Dark Night of the Soul" sharing her ideas and concepts from the book. Learn More About This Book or Purchase It Now!

In the first stage of metamorphosis we enter the chrysalis and dissolve our old form. This is a time of dismantling and coming apart where we have a tendency to resist the process, hold on to what was and invest an incredible amount of energy trying to keep the old form intact. We have not yet learned to surrender. The process can be deeply frightening and uncertain. It is in this stage we must realize that our life as a caterpillar is over and the only option available to us is to surrender to the process, let go and let God. It helps to know we are becoming something much greater than what we were, but it doesn’t feel great at all. It feels like a death! It is a death! Before there can be rebirth there must be death. In this episode of Pandora’s Box, Kaleah talks about the process of dying to what has outgrown its form.

Kaleah is back on the air after a writing Sabatical to complete her new book Rebirth; Traversing the Dark Night of the soul. This Episode is dedicated to talking about the topic of this new book. Rebirth; Traversing the Dark Night of the Soul is a guide for those who find themselves in the darkest, most painful time of their life due to major loss, divorce, illness, or a relationship with a narcissist, borderline or sociopath. If you feel the rug has been pulled out from under your feet; the bottom has dropped out and you don’t know where to turn, this book will not only help give you tools to navigate through the darkness but will also give you hope. Through every death is a rebirth.  You may be entering the greatest metamorphosis of your life.  The journey through darkness can be compared to the journey into the cocoon where a powerful transformation takes place.  Kaleah will take you by the hand and help you to navigate through the dark and painful emotions that keep you feeling lost, stuck and hopeless.  When Pandora’s Box is opened all your unfelt emotions come flooding to the surface, yet the last remaining piece is hope.  This book will inspire you and help you to see that you are not dying but rather you are being born.